think that for different people different thing can be "perfect". As for me I would like to see myself in the couple where both are equal, but the man is a bit ahead of the woman, more strong and initiative. But I do always have my own opinion, and want it to be considered as well. I am very loyal, and I do expect the same from my couple. I cannot stand lies and treasury. And my "perfect" relations must exist till the end of our lives. Else way those are not perfect enough for me.