There's a ghastly saying from the 'good old days' that used to be all the rage: 'spare the rod, spoil the child'. With hindsight, maybe those days weren't as good as we like to think. Back then, people used to think that smoking was a sophisticated thing to do too. It was even recommended by some members of the medical profession! Somewhere in the back of your mind is a tradition that needs to be re-evaluated. Don't assume that something's right, just because it has never been questioned. Now is the right time for y