If you are good to yourself, you will become better and more valuable in the eyes of others. And if you pay too much to others, you will become weaker, and when your utilization value is over, it will be over. Therefore, learn to love yourself, spoil yourself, and leave more opportunities to yourself. Don't always be too nice to others, always want to please others, the more you care about others, the more humble. Only by pleasing yourself and letting others please you will make you more valuable.