I think a man’s most basic responsibility is his wife. If he doesn’t work, I can afford my wife. If his wife wants to work, the money he earns is his pocket money, and you have to make sure that one thing is yours. Expenses, you can afford to live with a man. If you can’t afford your wife’s expenses, it means you can’t marry her at all. You’re marrying the wrong person. You can’t do what you can. You should ask him to find someone who matches him. If you can’t do this, you can’t be a qualified husband. A good husband does not mean how much money you want, but to what extent you are responsible for your family. This is the standard for a big man.