Unique to fathers is the example of anticipating the mother’s needs by being proactive and planning. Fathers discussed their role of anticipating anything that the mother may need, proactively attending to her needs without being asked, and planning ahead to accommodate her breastfeeding/pumping schedule. From the point of view of the fathers, this was one of the most important things that they could do to provide empathy and compassion and show that they care. From fathers: