The kid that actively says: “Mum, I’d like to go away with Kel in the holidays”.Reason: This is a good indicator that your child (especially ones that are already familiar with us) finds value in this sort of experience. Kids that pave their path tend to appreciate it more than one provided to them, so when they are hinting at a direction they view as being of value to them, then it is worth considering. This is not only for educational value or fun of travel, but may be for health reasons. Some kids lack mental stimulation their ordinary and predictable daily routines. Most kids probably lack the ability to articulate this in words, but by mentioning they would like to go is in a sense putting these possibilities forward. Look at your child when they make suggestions, and motivation to expand themselves can be deserving of a reward.