To be a man first, then to do things, to be a good man, to do good things, to calm down. Life is your own. You can live as you like. You never need to explain it to anyone. You don't need to frame yourself in a fixed shelf. You don't need to spend too much time talking with unnecessary people. You don't need to belittle yourself, and you don't need to aggrieve yourself in order to cater to others.