In the early morning of the big day, the groom must partake in a number of games and challenges before he even gets his bride to the venue. Dǔ men (堵门) a popular game among younger couples, is where the bride and her bridesmaids lock themselves in the bride's bedroom. The groom and his best men must collectively slide red pockets bundled with money under the door to bribe the ladies to open up. Once the door is open the groom must further find the bride's hidden shoes before he can whisk her away.k