做事我们要懂得屈伸，要懂得变通，遇到不能直达的，换个曲折点的方式，循序

做事我们要懂得屈伸，要懂得变通，遇到不能直达的，换个曲折点的方式，循序渐进，直话达不到目的，我们不防换种说话方式，或者以退为进，或许，放弃这边，收获那边，这样效果更好。<br><br> 屈伸之道，待人接物也一样，不能一味要求别人听自己的，也不要一味去听别人的，如果直接反驳或者命令，那样只能把事情搞糟，不如，委婉点，双方都后退一步想问题，也许，双方更容易达成默契。

做事我们要懂得屈伸，要懂得变通，遇到不能直达的，换个曲折点的方式，循序渐进，直话达不到目的，我们不防换种说话方式，或者以退为进，或许，放弃这边，收获那边，这样效果更好。<br><br>屈伸之道，待人接物也一样，不能一味要求别人听自己的，也不要一味去听别人的，如果直接反驳或者命令，那样只能把事情搞糟，不如，委婉点，双方都后退一步想问题，也许，双方更容易达成默契。

We need to know how to bend and stretch things, how to be flexible, and how to change the way of twists and turns when we meet something that can't be reached directly. We can't avoid changing the way of speaking, or taking a step back, or perhaps giving up here and reaping there. This is better.<br>The way of flexion and extension is the same with the way of dealing with people and things. You can't just ask others to listen to yourself or others. If you directly refute or order, you can only mess things up. It's better to be tactful. Both sides step back and think about the problem. Maybe, it's easier for both sides to reach a tacit understanding.<br>