Under the family education, girls generally obey the education of parents and teachers more than boys, which is not conducive to the cultivation of girls' perseverance. Compared with boys, girls pay more attention to birth, appearance, clothing, etc., and pay more attention to external material comparison. Girls with better resources show stronger self-confidence, while girls with weaker resources have higher sense of inferiority. Most boys don't usually. Pay attention to these. Therefore, the different adaptability of personality characteristics, growth environment and life experience make girls' psychological resilience lower than boys.