教育者要尊重、理解与信任学生们，要时时激励、宽容他们，那是不是要否认批

Educators must respect, understand and trust students, and always motivate and tolerate them. Shouldn't they deny criticism and punishment? Of course not. Teachers must get out of this misunderstanding, otherwise, our education will become indulgent. How to find the balance between the two? In fact, we can boldly criticize and punish as long as we correct our position and pay attention to strategy. In the book "Appreciation Education" Zhou Hong told us: People often accept "reminders of good friends", especially sincere reminders, as precious gifts of life. It is a good idea to pay attention to "humor" when criticizing. It should be criticized on the premise of full encouragement. For example, criticism can be expressed in this way-"It's great, except for the wrong places", or "It's too good, can it be better?" Sharing the mistakes or mistakes with the students is the best reminder . In many cases, students have made mistakes in examinations and scored low, or made mistakes. Their hearts are already very worried and sad. At this time, if we put salt on it and add frost to the snow, it will cause more harm to the children. The fragile heart is the most accessible. If we sincerely comfort them at this time, share the pain with them and solve the problem together, the children's hearts will be closely connected with us. Then, the effect of education is self-evident. The best human emotion should be love, and the soul of our teachers should also be love. True education is inseparable from love and respect. Only by loving students and respecting students can they open their hearts and make education successful; only by loving students and respecting students can teachers be truly worthy of the most glory under the sun Profession. Love is a kind of solace; respect is a medicine for the soul. They can eliminate all discordant sounds, create a paradise of life for students, give students a lifetime of mellowness, and converge into a beautiful melody in the soul of students. As teachers, we should raise the sail of love, pave the way for education with love and respect, and use love and respect to water every seed and cultivate every seedling.

Should educators respect, understand and trust students, and always motivate and tolerate them, is it to deny criticism and punishment? Of course not, teachers should get out of this misunderstanding, otherwise, our education will become pampered. So how do you find the balance between the two? In fact, as long as we put the right position, pay attention to the strategy, we can boldly criticize, punish. In the book "Appreciation Education", Zhou Hong tells us that people tend to accept "good friend's reminder", especially sincere reminder, as a precious gift of life. It's a good idea to be "humorous" when criticizing. Criticism should be undertaken with full encouragement. For example, you can express criticism in a way that means, "Great, except for the wrong place", or "Too good, can it be better?" Sharing their mistakes or mistakes with students is the best reminder. In many cases, students make mistakes in their studies, or make mistakes, and their hearts are already very worried and sad. At this point, if we still put salt on it, it will do more harm to the child. Fragile hearts are the easiest to reach, and if we sincerely comfort them, share the pain with them, solve problems together, the hearts of the children will be closely connected to us. Then, the effect of education is self-evident. The best emotion of man kindshould be love, and the soul of our teacher son should be love. True education can not be separated from love, can not be separated from respect, only love students, respect students, can let them open their hearts, can let education to success, only love students, respect students, can teachers really worthy of the most glorious profession under the sun. Love is a kind of comfort; They can eliminate all disharmony, can create a life's paradise for students, can give students a lifetime of mellow fragrance, in the hearts of students gathered into a melody of beautiful music. As teachers, we should raise the sails of love, with love and respect to pave the way for education, with love and respect to water each seed, to cultivate each seedling.

Educators should respect, understand and trust students, and encourage and tolerate them all the time. Is that to deny criticism and punishment? Of course not, teachers should get out of this misunderstanding, otherwise, our education will become pampering. How to find the balance between the two? In fact, as long as we put ourselves in the right place and pay attention to strategies, we can boldly criticize and punish. In appreciation education, Zhou Hong tells us that people tend to accept "reminders from good friends", especially sincere reminders, as precious gifts of life. It's a good way to be humorous in criticism. Criticism should be made on the premise of full encouragement. For example, criticism can be expressed in such a way as "too good, except for the wrong place", or "too good, can it be better?" Sharing their mistakes or mistakes with students is the best reminder. In many cases, students make mistakes in their study, such as low scores or mistakes. Their hearts are already very worried and sad. At this time, if we put salt on it and make it worse, it will cause more damage to the children. Fragile hearts are the most accessible. If we sincerely comfort them, share the pain with them, and solve the problem together, the hearts of children will be closely connected with us. Then, the effect of education is self-evident. The most beautiful emotion of human beings should be love, and the soul of our teachers should also be love. The real education can't do without love and respect. Only by loving and respecting students can we open their hearts and make education successful. Only by loving and respecting students can we make teachers truly worthy of the most glorious profession in the sun. Love is a kind of consolation; respect is a good medicine to stick to the heart. They can eliminate all the discordant sounds, create a paradise of life for students, give students a lifetime of mellow fragrance, and gather into a melody of beautiful music in students' hearts. As teachers, we should raise the sail of love, pave the way of education with love and respect, water every seed with love and respect, and cultivate every seedling.<br>