[content abstract] family is the fi

[content abstract] family is the first social environment in children's life, the first place for people to gain experience, and the most important place for children's behavior and character formation. Therefore, cultivate style and parent-child communication. Family environment and other factors. It has a great impact on children's psychological development. Parents are children's first teachers. They play an irreplaceable role in cultivating children's good habits. What plays a great role in the formation and development of children's character is the cultivation of family style. Everyone has a clear understanding and basic concept of what knowledge, moral qualities and behavior habits parents should have,[Key words] family, rearing style, behavior, personality