You love a good gotcha – especially when you catch the culprit red-handed. For weeks you’ve lain in wait knowing that a certain someone would eventually mess up. And he will on April 22nd or 24th. But something you didn’t take into account were the difficult circumstances he’s had to contend with. It wasn’t that long ago when you faced a similar financial hardship or personal dilemma and even though you made different choices, you can see how he arrived at where he is now. Obviously you can’t let him off the hook but you can show him the way back to the path he’s strayed from.