The relationship between people is different and mutual. If other people don't understand the situation, don't ask others to do something unilaterally. A good relationship requires no effort to maintain nor effort to cater to.
The emotional bond between people is different and mutual. If others do not understand the situation, they should not unilaterally demand what others do. A good relationship does not require effort to maintain or cater.
The mutual affection between people is different and mutual. If others don't know the situation, don't ask others unilaterally. A good relationship needs no effort to maintain or cater to.