The first step is to recognize the right of the child to be angry. Anger is the child's self affirmation, which shows that he has the courage to express his own ideas and needs, while a person who dare not be angry or dare to be angry but dare not speak is likely to form depression, or accumulate beyond the limit and burst out suddenly. Therefore, parents should distinguish the right of nuclear anger from the way of angry behavior. Due to the limited ability of children's behavior, they usually exercise their anger right in an inappropriate way. As a result, parents refuse their children's anger behavior and refuse their children's anger right at the same time. What parents should do is to respect their children's anger right and guide their children Learn to express anger in the right way. One way to respect children's right to anger is to help them confirm their emotional state with their eyes and words. Parents squat down, look at them with calm eyes, encourage them to look at themselves, and calmly say to them, "are you angry?" "you can see that you are angry." Children can feel that their parents are understanding, recognizing and accepting their anger, which helps them to slow down their anger.