Each child’s personality, abilities, and hobbies are different, and children may also have different characteristics in the process of learning and growth: some learn fast, some learn slow; some mature early, some mature late; some are interested It is more extensive, and some people are more specific. For some children, these differences may not show in school due to some inconveniences in study and life due to reasons such as personality and psychology, but the family is not guarded for him, and it is easier for a careful parent than school. It is found that the students are exposed to abnormal psychology in various periods. Parents can tell the teacher about their children’s deficiencies, advantages, and children’s personality characteristics one by one, and communicate with the teacher regularly to understand their children’s performance in school behavior, study habits, and peer relationships. Carry out targeted education.