I will not lie, life is full of quarrel and pain. Security can often be an illusion. It would be nice to know that there is someone waiting at home after work, which is why many people buy pets. People are just not as reliable.I do wish I could hear some better news from you but I understand how you are needed right now. As for me all is well. I am getting ready to move some this next weekend. All i really need is to close the window with a curtain and attach my door so the bedroom is dark enough for sleep. Once I am sure of that I can move my bed and other bits needed for life while i clean more of the place.