Last year, I spent my holiday in an

去年，我在新泽西州莱克伍德一个陌生的社区度过了假期。我们租了一所房子，以便我们的一些子孙可以参加聚会。该地区的每个人都超级友好，愿意来介绍自己，并确保我们充分利用他们的热情好客，无论是借钱还是送孩子们在院子里玩耍。我们感到兴奋和印象深刻，立即开始看看附近是否有待售房屋！我们的隔壁特别迷人（参观而不是购买）。在院子里，有一个网球场，一个秋千和各种玩具和游戏，这些玩具和玩具特别受年幼的孩子欢迎。店主也非常友善，<br>邀请孩子们过来玩耍，不必问他们两次。他们连续玩了几个小时。当我们在院子里放松时，也许有点太舒服了，也许彼此之间的陪伴过得很轻松，也许忘记了<br><br>没有大人照顾他们，小孩子就不能离开太久。<br><br>显然，隔壁的男孩和我一个五岁的孙子之间发生了一场小小的战斗。我10岁的<br><br>孙子立即跳到<br><br>表弟的防守并推了另一个男孩，这时，隔壁的母亲<br><br>被迫干预（i1＃）。<br><br>然后邻居过来跟我们说话。现在，当我试图想象自己时：在那种姿势下，我想象出各种消极和攻击性的方式来应对它-我会非常生气，并抱怨这些来访儿童的不良行为。 ，肯定是把他们送回家了。帕劳兰1·I她的所作所为

去年，我在纽泽西湖伍德一个陌生的社区度假。我们租了一栋房子，以便我们的一些子孙可以加入我们。该地区的每个人都非常友好，他们提出要来介绍自己，并确保我们会充分利用他们的热情好客，无论是借点钱还是送孩子们去他们的院子里玩。我们很兴奋，印象深刻，并立即开始看到，如果有房子出售在附近！我们隔壁特别迷人（参观不买）。院子里有一个网球场，一个秋千，还有一些特别受幼儿欢迎的玩具和游戏。店主也非常友好，<br>邀请孩子们过来玩。他们不必被问两次。他们结束了几个小时的玩。当我们在院子里放松的时候，也许有点太舒服了，也许享受彼此的陪伴有点太多，也许忘了小孩子不能离开太久<br><br>没有成年人照顾他们。<br><br>显然，隔壁的男孩和我的一个五岁孙子之间爆发了一场小斗。我10岁的孩子<br><br>孙子立即跳到他<br><br>表弟的辩护， 并推了另一个男孩。在这一点上，隔壁的母亲<br><br>被迫干预（i1#）。<br><br>邻居过来和我们说话。现在，当我试图想象自己：在这个位置，我想象各种消极和侵略性的方式来处理它----我会非常生气和抱怨这些来访的孩子的行为，并肯定送他们回家。帕拉奥兰 1°我你做了什么， 作为努伊特

Last year, I spent my holiday in an unfamiliar neighborhood in Lakewood, NewJersey. We rented a house so that some ofour children and grandchildren could joinus. Everyone in the area was super friendly,offering to come to introduce themselves tous and to ensure that we would make fulluse of their hospitality, whether to borrowsomething or to send the kids to play in their yards. We were excited and impressedand immediately began to see if there wereany houses for sale in the neighborhood!The next door to us was particularly fascinating (to visit not to buy). In the yard,there was a tennis court, a swing set andvarious toys and games that were particularly popular with young children.The owner was also very friendly andinvited the kids to come over and play.They didn't have to be asked twice. Theyplayed for hours on end. While we relaxed inour yard, perhaps a little too comfortable,perhaps enjoying each other s company alittle too much, perhaps forgetting thatyoung children can t be left too longwithout adults looking after them.Apparently, a small fight broke out betweenthe boy of the next door and one of my five-year-old grandsons. My 10-year-oldgrandson immediately jumped to hiscousin's defense and pushed the other boy.At this point, the mother next door wasforced to intervene (i1#).And the neighbor came over to speak to us.Now when I try to imagine myself: in thatposition, I imagine all sorts of negative andaggressive ways to deal with it ---- I wouldhave been very angry and complainedabout the bad behavior of these visitingchildren, and definitely sent them home.Paraoranh 1· IWhat she did иas nuite<br>