父母的年龄接近命运的年龄，甚至更大，他们常常 我曾经在网上看到一句话：

Parents age approaching fate of age, even more, they often <br> I have seen on the Internet saying: "You dare you son, I dare my son," sounds funny, but now there are many families that phenomenon. As different concepts of education and age, a lot of families because children's education and produced a series of "funny" contradiction. Often when children make mistakes, parents will suggest corrections. When children make mistakes education, grandparents immediately come to persuade. Ancestors of values, lifestyles, knowledge structure, education, are more or less different from the modern society. Our ancestors must have the physical and psychological characteristics of the elderly. While young parents absorption of modern education is relatively fast, but two generations in the child's education problems often have different views. For example, the parents when the child dispute, always guide their children how to play games with the children in the child's interaction, to calm down, pay attention to guiding children to use the correct method, it is easy from the ancestors of the child's "interest" to ensure children "do not eat" education, it is easy for children to grow up bad habits arrogant overbearing long life and grandparents with children and their parents is likely to cause emotional separation. Grandparents love for the child can not meet the child's emotional needs. From the perspective of psychological development, the 0-5-year-olds most important is the need for parents depressed mood of love. More love in order to survive and meet the security needs of young children, and requires a higher level of emotional need to belong can only be met by parents.

The parents were close to the age of fate, and even greater, and they often<br> I once saw a line on the Internet: "You dare to hit your son, I dare to hit my son", sounds funny, but now many families have this phenomenon. Because of the difference of age and different educational concepts, many families have a series of "funny" contradictions because of their children's education. Usually when a child makes a mistake, parents will recommend correcting it. Grandparents immediately come to persuade children who make mistakes. The values, way of life, knowledge structure and educational methods of the ancestors will be more or less different from the modern society. The ancestors must have the physical and psychological characteristics of the elderly. Although young parents absorb modern education more quickly, the two generations often have different views on the issue of educating their children. For example, parents in the child's dispute, always guide the child in the process of interaction with the child how to play games, to calm down, pay attention to guide the child to use the correct method, ancestors are easy from the child's "interest" to ensure that the child "do not eat" education, it is easy to make the child grow up arrogant and overbearing bad habits living together with grandparents for a long time it is easy to cause the child and parents emotional separation. The love of the ancestors to the child can not meet the emotional needs of the child. From the perspective of psychological development, the most important thing for children aged 0-5 is the need for low-emotional love for their parents. Love is more to meet the survival and safety needs of young children, and the need for a higher level of emotional belonging needs can only be met by parents.

Parents are close to the age of fate, or even older, and they often<br>I once saw a sentence on the Internet: "you dare to hit your son, I dare to hit my son". It sounds funny, but now many families have this phenomenon. Because of the difference of age and education concept, many families have a series of "funny" contradictions because of children's education problems. Usually when a child makes a mistake, the parents will suggest correction. When educating children who make mistakes, grandparents immediately come to persuade them. The values, life style, knowledge structure and education style of the ancestors will be more or less different from the modern society. The ancestors must have the physiological and psychological characteristics of the elderly. Although young parents absorb modern education more quickly, the two generations often have different views on the issue of educating children. For example, parents always guide their children how to play games with their children in the interaction process when their children have disputes. They should calm down and pay attention to guiding their children to use the right methods. It is easy for ancestors to start from their children's "interests" and ensure their children's "don't eat" education. It is easy to make their children grow up arrogant and domineering bad habits live with their grandparents for a long time It is easy to cause emotional separation between children and parents. Grandparents' love for their children can't meet their emotional needs. From the perspective of psychological development, the most important thing for children aged 0-5 is to love their parents emotionally. Love is more to meet the survival and safety needs of children, and the need for a higher level of emotional belonging needs can only be met by parents.