he grabbed on and ended up drowning me when I __7__ and tried to rescue him. His rudeness gradually was out of __8__. One night, when I got up to get a glass of water, he started yelling at me to get back into my bedroom. I did as I was told but I was not happy about it. He __9__ my change in mood and asked what was wrong. But when I told him his behavior toward me was __10__ and that I was very hurt by the way he had __11__ me, he was surprised. He could not understand his actions had a bad __12__ on me. He told me he didn't have anything __13__ me and that there was no need for me to __14__ it. I used examples from his life of things that had hurt him and then tried to make the __15__ that the same things also made me __16__. I said, “I always treat you with patience, understanding and kindness, but you haven't treated me with __17__ respect.” He was silent after listening to my words. What I had said might __18__ him.People only change __19__ they want to change. I didn't know whether he would change his opinion or not in the future, but I would continue to __20__ him through my patience, understanding and kindness