Becoming a parent is one of the most profound transitions in life an individual will experience, and for a couple becoming parents together is an extraordinary and life-long journey that bonds them together. So why is it, then, that it is so common for parenthood to decrease relationship satisfaction? Moreover, how can couples buck the trend of the so-called "happiness gap" and stay connected, or even grow closer throughout this journey (Gilbert, 2007)? The key seems to be awareness and understanding of the course and stages of a long-term relationship, and realistic expectations of parenthood as an opportunity to learn about yourself, talk about your feelings, build community and know where and how to ask for help.