(1) The ability to welcome love. If

（1）欢迎爱的能力。如果一个人的内心有爱，他就必须敢于以正确的方式表达爱。如果他能够面对他人的爱时做出选择，并做出及时接受或拒绝的选择。可以承受求爱拒绝或拒绝求爱的心理困扰。<br>（2）拒绝爱的能力。您应该勇于拒绝不想接受的爱，或者认为不值得接受的爱。拒绝时要注意两点：1.如果您不希望爱来，拒绝的语气必须果断而坚决，不要犹豫不决，否则会给对方造成更大的伤害。2.掌握适当的方法。掌握说话的方式和程度。尽管每个人都有拒绝爱的权利，但他们必须尊重他人。

（1）欢迎爱的能力。如果一个人心中有爱，他必须敢于用正确的方式表达爱;如果他能够选择时面对别人的爱，并作出选择接受或拒绝的时间。能承受求爱拒绝或拒绝求爱的心理困扰。<br>（2）拒绝爱的能力。你应该有勇气拒绝你不想接受或认为不值得接受的爱。拒绝时要注意两点：1.如果你不想爱来，拒绝的语气必须是果断和坚决的，没有任何犹豫不决，否则会对对方造成更多的伤害。2. 掌握适当的方法。掌握说话的方式和程度。虽然每个人都有权拒绝爱情，但他们必须尊重他人。

(1) The ability to welcome love. If a person has love in his heart, he must dare to express it in the right way; if he is able to choose when facing other people's love, and make the choice of accepting or rejecting in time. Can withstand the psychological distress of courtship rejection or refusal to courtship.(2) The ability to refuse love. You should have the courage to refuse love that you don't want to accept or think it's not worth accepting. Two points should be paid attention to when rejecting: 1. If you do not want love to come, the tone of rejection must be decisive and resolute, without any indecision, otherwise it will cause more harm to the other party. 2. To master the appropriate method. To master the way and degree of speaking. Although everyone has the right to refuse love, they must show respect for others.<br>