What is often so difficult it to da

What is often so difficult it to date a man, see his strengths and good qualities, as well as his weak points. NEVER focus only on his good points, or his bad ones. Take both into account,because if you are to get married, you marry him with both good and bad. NEVER think that he will change. NEVER. He might but it is not certain, and it is certainly unwise to get married thinking that he will, or that you will help him change. I did this once and say it from experience.You need to think hard, with your head, about his qualities. Can you live with his good and bad ones? Is he committed to changing himself for himself? Does he value self-improvement and working on his weaknesses? This is one of the best qualities a human can have, i believe. None of us are prefect, though many of us have the illusion and fantasy that ! We delude ourselves because we do not use our head and heart.