都说，女儿是妈妈的小棉袄；我们山里农村也流传着这样的俚语：生男孩，满山

都说，女儿是妈妈的小棉袄；我们山里农村也流传着这样的俚语：生男孩，满山跑；生女孩，锅边转。意思是说，男儿注定要远离父母，只有女儿才会留在父母身边养老送终。七个子女，不管是顺排倒排，我都是父母中间的那个孩子。人们常说，中间的孩子最可怜，小时候得不到父母的疼爱，长大了又不能当家做主……可我觉得，我们家又不是皇族帝胄，中间的孩子，天塌下来，有哥哥和姐姐顶着；地陷下去，也有弟弟和妹妹填着。我在中间，不顶天，不陷地，虽然不是父母的掌上明珠和宠儿，却是芸芸众生里的幸运儿。

都说，女儿是妈妈的小棉袄；我们山里农村也流传着这样的俚语：生男孩，满山跑；生女孩，锅边转。 意思是说，男儿注定要远离父母，只有女儿才会留在父母身边养老送终。 七个子女，不管是顺排倒排，我都是父母中间的那个孩子。 人们常说，中间的孩子最可怜，小时候得不到父母的疼爱，长大了又不能当家做主…… 可我觉得，我们家又不是皇族帝胄，中间的孩子，天塌下来，有哥哥和姐姐顶着；地陷下去，也有弟弟和妹妹填着。 我在中间，不顶天，不陷地，虽然不是父母的掌上明珠和宠儿，却是芸芸众生里的幸运儿。

It is said that the daughter is the mother's little cotton padded jacket; we have such slang in the mountains and Countryside: give birth to a boy, run all over the mountain; give birth to a girl, turn around the pot. It means that a man is destined to stay away from his parents, and only his daughter will stay with them to support the old and die. Seven children, whether in line or in reverse, I am the child among my parents. It is often said that the children in the middle are the most pitiful. They can't be loved by their parents when they are young, and they can't be masters when they grow up But I don't think our family is the emperor of the royal family. The children in the middle of our family have their brothers and sisters holding the sky down and their brothers and sisters filling in the ground. I am in the middle, not up to the sky, not down to the ground. Although I am not the apple of my parents' eyes and favorite, I am the lucky one among all the people.<br>