The kid that has no story of their ownReason: In my opinion, this is a relatively sad situation, especially for teenagers. One that has no story to share is not likely to get far amongst their peers, and that’s an unfortunate for their social development. I would do my best as a parent to avoid this. Take a close look at your child and ask, ‘tell me your story’, and if their eyes light up then that is a good sign. If your sense their existence is less than they would like, then we know we know some work must begin.