在QQ上看到这个话题，于是点进去看了一眼评论，又在看到那句“你点进来看

在QQ上看到这个话题，于是点进去看了一眼评论，又在看到那句“你点进来看，就说明你根本没放下”之后赶紧退了出来。心想，说这句话的人，可真恶毒！明明人家那么想放下，你却总是要提醒她放不下。<br><br>评论里我最感同身受的是那句，终于有一天，我跟朋友提起你的时候，不再是伤心地掉眼泪，而是用自嘲的语气讲完我们所有的故事。<br><br>可是现实里，当你讲完所有的故事之后，你那些听的朋友里总会有人恶毒又自以为是地说一句，你还会提起他，说明你还是没有放下。<br><br>也有人会说，其实你还喜欢他，别不承认了！<br><br>更甚至有人在你说“那么烂的人我早就不喜欢了”的时候会说一句，你是不喜欢了，你只是不甘心。<br><br>去你大爷的不甘心，你们怎么就那么了解我的感情了，好像我的恋爱都是您给我谈的吧！<br><br>忽然放下一个人是什么感受呢？这个问题我还真不知道怎么回答，因为放下一个人是需要时间的。电影《失恋三十三天》里面，分手后的日子里，每一天都被打上了失恋第几天的烙印。失恋第一天，他怎么还不找我和好？失恋第二天，他会不会也和我一样睡不着？失恋第三天，你有没有也和我一样想念？那些失恋的日子里，是我一个人呆坐一整天的百无聊赖，是等他的来电和短信的焦躁不安，是你纠结要不要先问候他，要不要去挽留的苦痛挣扎。<br><br>这些都不是你能忽然就放下的，因为他曾经说过情话让你心动，因为他牵你手时的坚定你早就珍藏在心头，因为他吻你的时候你就把自己的心交了出去，因为那个在一起过的人你明明想永远跟他在一起，你真切地参与过那场恋爱，你拿出所有真心去爱过一个人，怎么可能轻易就忘记呢？<br><br>失恋后的日子里，我没有一天忘记过他。有意无意地在朋友那边打听关于他的消息，和他的聊天记录，反反复复地看。即使在朋友告诉我，他和另一个女生特别好，人家心里早就没有你了，虽然很想忘记，但也只是更痛苦。<br><br>那是我一直不愿意回忆的痛苦。只有时间是最好的良药吧，真正的放下是当有另外的人对你好时，你已经愿意去接纳，是当后来某一天又听到他的消息时，你会心一笑，感叹怎么他还是老样子，可是你已经向前走了很多很多，遇到了更好的人，成为了更真实自在的自己。<br><br>我记得失恋后的几个星期里，我一直很纠结要不要先去联系他，在想是不是他也和我一样等着对方先说话呢？然后当我真的去找他的时候，发现他已经和另一个女生在一起了，他们说着情侣间甜蜜的情话，他们大大方方地牵手约会，他好像真的很喜欢那个女生的样子，会为她做好多好多事情，会陪她逛街陪她做很多她想做的事。而我的出现和我的存在，全都是打扰。<br><br>那时我才开始死心，开始相信，如果一个人真的想你，他会来找你，没有例外。<br><br>所以，千万别对那些不联系你的人寄予厚望，他们不找你，真的只是因为你不重要。<br><br>爱情啊，它很简单。对方说结束，那就真的结束了。<br><br>不要听别人的那些“喜欢就去追回来”，“那么放不下就去挽回”，在一起是两个人的事，喜欢也是两个人的事，他选择了放弃你，就一定不会回头，你的放不下和念念不忘一点都不酷！<br><br>也许在很久很久以后，当你又在街头偶遇他时，过去的一切还是会涌上心头来提醒你经历过那些因为喜欢一个人而痛得撕心裂肺的日子，可是那时的你，应该有笑着说“好巧”的勇气。放下一个人，其实是一个放过自己的过程。没关系的，你只是喜欢过一个不那么好的人，你只是经历了一些人生总会有的挫折，可是他的出现，是为了教会你成长。所以你，还是应该勇敢地去爱，也要相信自己值得被更好的疼爱。<br><br>放开错的人，才能和对的人相拥。拜拜就拜拜，下一个更乖。

在QQ上看到这个话题，于是点进去看了一眼评论，又在看到那句“你点进来看，就说明你根本没放下”之后赶紧退了出来。 心想，说这句话的人，可真恶毒！ 明明人家那么想放下，你却总是要提醒她放不下。<br><br>评论里我最感同身受的是那句，终于有一天，我跟朋友提起你的时候，不再是伤心地掉眼泪，而是用自嘲的语气讲完我们所有的故事。<br><br>可是现实里，当你讲完所有的故事之后，你那些听的朋友里总会有人恶毒又自以为是地说一句，你还会提起他，说明你还是没有放下。<br><br>也有人会说，其实你还喜欢他，别不承认了！<br><br>更甚至有人在你说“那么烂的人我早就不喜欢了”的时候会说一句，你是不喜欢了，你只是不甘心。<br><br>去你大爷的不甘心，你们怎么就那么了解我的感情了，好像我的恋爱都是您给我谈的吧！<br><br>忽然放下一个人是什么感受呢？ 这个问题我还真不知道怎么回答，因为放下一个人是需要时间的。 电影《失恋三十三天》里面，分手后的日子里，每一天都被打上了失恋第几天的烙印。 失恋第一天，他怎么还不找我和好？ 失恋第二天，他会不会也和我一样睡不着？ 失恋第三天，你有没有也和我一样想念？ 那些失恋的日子里，是我一个人呆坐一整天的百无聊赖，是等他的来电和短信的焦躁不安，是你纠结要不要先问候他，要不要去挽留的苦痛挣扎。<br><br>这些都不是你能忽然就放下的，因为他曾经说过情话让你心动，因为他牵你手时的坚定你早就珍藏在心头，因为他吻你的时候你就把自己的心交了出去，因为那个在一起过的人你明明想永远跟他在一起，你真切地参与过那场恋爱， 你拿出所有真心去爱过一个人，怎么可能轻易就忘记呢？<br><br>失恋后的日子里，我没有一天忘记过他。 有意无意地在朋友那边打听关于他的消息，和他的聊天记录，反反复复地看。 即使在朋友告诉我，他和另一个女生特别好，人家心里早就没有你了，虽然很想忘记，但也只是更痛苦。<br><br>那是我一直不愿意回忆的痛苦。 只有时间是最好的良药吧，真正的放下是当有另外的人对你好时，你已经愿意去接纳，是当后来某一天又听到他的消息时，你会心一笑，感叹怎么他还是老样子，可是你已经向前走了很多很多，遇到了更好的人，成为了更真实自在的自己。<br><br>我记得失恋后的几个星期里，我一直很纠结要不要先去联系他，在想是不是他也和我一样等着对方先说话呢？ 然后当我真的去找他的时候，发现他已经和另一个女生在一起了，他们说着情侣间甜蜜的情话，他们大大方方地牵手约会，他好像真的很喜欢那个女生的样子，会为她做好多好多事情，会陪她逛街陪她做很多她想做的事。 而我的出现和我的存在，全都是打扰。<br><br>那时我才开始死心，开始相信，如果一个人真的想你，他会来找你，没有例外。<br><br>所以，千万别对那些不联系你的人寄予厚望，他们不找你，真的只是因为你不重要。<br><br>爱情啊，它很简单。 对方说结束，那就真的结束了。<br><br>不要听别人的那些“喜欢就去追回来”，“那么放不下就去挽回”，在一起是两个人的事，喜欢也是两个人的事，他选择了放弃你，就一定不会回头，你的放不下和念念不忘一点都不酷！<br><br>也许在很久很久以后，当你又在街头偶遇他时，过去的一切还是会涌上心头来提醒你经历过那些因为喜欢一个人而痛得撕心裂肺的日子，可是那时的你，应该有笑着说“好巧”的勇气。 放下一个人，其实是一个放过自己的过程。 没关系的，你只是喜欢过一个不那么好的人，你只是经历了一些人生总会有的挫折，可是他的出现，是为了教会你成长。 所以你，还是应该勇敢地去爱，也要相信自己值得被更好的疼爱。<br><br>放开错的人，才能和对的人相拥。 拜拜就拜拜，下一个更乖。

I saw this topic on QQ, so I went in and took a look at the comment. Then I saw the sentence "if you come in and see it, it means you haven't put it down at all." then I quickly backed out. Thought to myself, the person who said this sentence is really vicious! Obviously people want to put it down, but you always have to remind her that she can't.<br>What I feel most in the comments is that, one day, when I mentioned you to my friends, I no longer shed tears sadly, but finished all our stories with self mockery.<br>But in reality, when you finish all the stories, some of your listening friends will say a vicious and opinionated sentence, and you will mention him, indicating that you still haven't let go.<br>Some people will say, in fact, you still like him, don't admit it!<br>Even someone will say when you say "I don't like such a rotten person for a long time". You don't like it. You just don't want it.<br>I'm not willing to go to your uncle. How can you know my feelings so well? It seems that you're the one who talks about my love!<br>What is it like to suddenly let go of a person? I really don't know how to answer this question, because it takes time to let go of someone. In the movie "thirty three days of lovelorn", every day after the break-up is marked with the mark of the first few days of lovelorn. On the first day of lovelorn, why didn't he make up with me? The next day of lovelorn, will he sleep like me? The third day of lovelorn, do you miss as much as I do? In those days of lovelorn, I was bored all day by myself. It was the restlessness of waiting for his phone calls and messages. It was the bitter struggle of whether you wanted to greet him first and whether you wanted to stay.<br>These are not things you can suddenly let go of, because he once said love words to make your heart move, because he held your hand firmly, you have been cherished in your heart, because when he kissed you, you gave your heart out, because the person you were with clearly wants to be with him forever, you really participated in that love, you took out all your heart to love a person, how Is it easy to forget?<br>In the days after lovelorn, I have never forgotten him. Intentionally or unintentionally ask for information about him from a friend, chat with him, and read it over and over again. Even when my friend told me that he and another girl are very good. They have no you in their hearts. Although they want to forget, they are just more painful.<br>That's the pain I've been reluctant to recall. Only time is the best medicine. The real way to let go is that when someone else treats you well, you are willing to accept it. When you hear his news one day later, you will smile and sigh how he is still the same. But you have gone forward a lot, met a better person and become a more real and comfortable yourself.<br>I remember that in the weeks after I was lovelorn, I was wondering if I should contact him first. I was wondering if he was waiting for the other person to speak first, just like me. Then when I really went to find him, I found that he was already with another girl. They said sweet love words between lovers. They held hands in all directions for dating. He seemed to really like that girl. He would do a lot of things for her and would accompany her in the street and do many things she wanted to do. And my presence and my presence are all interruptions.<br>At that time, I began to give up and believe that if a person really wants you, he will come to you, without exception.<br>So, don't place high hopes on those who don't contact you. They don't look for you. It's really just because you don't matter.<br>Love, it's simple. They say it's over, it's really over.<br>Don't listen to other people's "like to go back", "then can't let go to retrieve", together is two people's business, like is also two people's business, he chose to give up you, will not turn back, your can't let go and never forget is not cool!<br>Maybe a long time later, when you meet him in the street, everything in the past will still come to your heart to remind you of those days when you have experienced heartbreaking pain because you like a person. But at that time, you should have the courage to say "so skillful" with a smile. To let go of a person is actually a process of letting go of oneself. It doesn't matter. You just like a person who is not so good. You just experience some setbacks in life. But his appearance is to teach you how to grow. So you should be brave to love and believe that you deserve better love.<br>Only by letting go of the wrong one can we embrace the right one. Just do it. The next one is better.<br>