父母与孩子的交流一直是家庭的一大难题，随着孩子不断的长大，越来越多的心

父母与孩子的交流一直是家庭的一大难题，随着孩子不断的长大，越来越多的心事都不与父母说，导致父母与孩子之前产生隔阂并且关系渐渐的疏远。<br>如图表显示，7-9岁的孩子每周与父母的交流时间是6小时，而随着孩子慢慢的长大，与父母交流的越来越少。这到底是因为什么原因呢？现在孩子的学习压力大，每天都有一大堆的习题等着他们，回到家后还要继续学习，父母还在一旁催着，使得孩子慢慢的疏远父母，渐渐的就不与父母交流。还有一些孩子因为在学校待久了，和父母就没有了共同话题，使得关系僵化。<br>在我看来，要想有个良好的家庭关系，就必须要懂得孩子想要什么，去尊重他的选择。

父母与孩子的交流一直是家庭的一大难题，随着孩子不断的长大，越来越多的心事都不与父母说，导致父母与孩子之前产生隔阂并且关系渐渐的疏远。<br>如图表显示，7-9岁的孩子每周与父母的交流时间是6小时，而随着孩子慢慢的长大，与父母交流的越来越少。 这到底是因为什么原因呢？ 现在孩子的学习压力大，每天都有一大堆的习题等着他们，回到家后还要继续学习，父母还在一旁催着，使得孩子慢慢的疏远父母，渐渐的就不与父母交流。 还有一些孩子因为在学校待久了，和父母就没有了共同话题，使得关系僵化。<br>在我看来，要想有个良好的家庭关系，就必须要懂得孩子想要什么，去尊重他的选择。

The communication between parents and children has always been a big problem for families. With the growing up of children, more and more things are not said to parents, which leads to the estrangement between parents and children and the gradual estrangement between them.<br>As shown in the chart, 7-9-year-old children communicate with their parents for 6 hours a week, while as children grow up, they communicate less and less with their parents. What is the reason for this? Now the pressure of children's study is great. Every day, there are a lot of exercises waiting for them. When they get home, they will continue to study. The parents are still urging them, which makes the children gradually alienate their parents and gradually do not communicate with them. Some children have no common topic with their parents because they have been in school for a long time, which makes their relationship rigid.<br>In my opinion, if we want to have a good family relationship, we must understand what our children want and respect their choices.<br>