Well Joe I thought I would come by to visit while Oliver is busy with choir practice." She pauses for a moment. "I was also wanting to talk to you about a detail concerning the wedding. Oliver and I have spoken about a couple of things and He felt comfortable with me talking them over with you for both of us. He feels that it is very important for you and I to become better acquainted. Since my Dad has been gone from my life for a very long time and he is no longer alive for me to have a father daughter relationship with. He said he would be ok with sharing his dad with me." Shane pauses again to let it all sink in.