I'm just a woman looking for something more, I've been that cute conservative girl next door for so much of my life, and it's time to find out what else I can be. Not looking for a lightning strike that is brilliant but burns, and is gone in a flash, it has to be genuine and consistent. I want attraction, intelligence, confidence, down-to-earth charm ... but don't we all."Is this insanity to be here, or is the risk equal the return