When I read this article, I think some people in this world, they will try to help others as much as possible and be perfect, but they rarely make their own requests, even the most intimate family and friends . I used to be one of these people, and I will do my best to fulfill the needs of the people around me for me, but I need a lot of courage whereabouts of their request, even if it is like to help me with forgotten with textbooks this small request. I always thought I was such an approach is correct, it should so live among friends. But one thing has changed me, once one of my friends need to go to the hospital, I was perfectly free to go with her, but she did not call me, and afterwards I asked her why, because I think we are good friends, in this when will she need me. Then she told me, because when I was in the same situation at the time, I did not ask her for help. Her words made me realize that as a good friend, she can not just unilaterally to share her life to me between us, but I only gave her a part of my show. To be frank with each other should become friends of a premise.
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