Some people thought they were not excellent and have no confidence so they looked down on theirselves.However if you don't love and respect yourself, it’s a sure bet that no one else will. Fortunately, with dedication and plenty of soul-searching, you can learn how to love yourself. Once you do this, you will see that love attracts love. By becoming a more positive, content individual, you will naturally attract others to you and develop more satisfying relationships.