在爱情问题上，她也有自己独特的见解。她希望自己未来的丈夫能够过自食其力

在爱情问题上，她也有自己独特的见解。她希望自己未来的丈夫能够过自食其力的生活，当弗莱德向她求爱时，她说: “我永远不会爱上一个没有男子气概，不能自立的人，一个游手好闲，蹉跎岁月，指望侥幸得到别人恩赐的人”。<br>玛丽将“自立”作为做人的基本准则，并以此来要求弗莱德，表现了她不仅要改变女性自身的现状，还要改变男性的愿望。由于弗莱德继承遗产的愿望泡汤，父亲逼着他做教士，但弗莱德并不喜欢教士的职业，在玛丽看来弗莱德的性格以及生活习惯根本不适合做教士，即使勉强做了也不能成为一个好教士，到头来只能弄虚作假，成为别人的笑柄。

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On the issue of love, she also has her own unique views. She wanted her future husband to live on his own. When Fred courted her, she said, "I will never fall in love with a man who is not masculine and can't stand on his own feet, a man who idles away, wastes time, and hopes to get lucky and get favors from others."<br>Mary regards "self-reliance" as the basic principle of life, and asks Fred to show that she not only wants to change the status quo of women, but also the desire of men. Because Fred's desire to inherit his legacy was in vain, his father forced him to become a clergyman, but Fred did not like the profession of a clergyman. In Mary's opinion, Fred's personality and habits were not suitable for being a clergyman at all. Even if he did it reluctantly, he could not become a good clergyman. In the end, he could only falsify and become a laughing stock of others.<br>