Family education is a kind of universal and long-term education, which is of great significance to promoting the healthy growth of students' body and mind, family happiness and social progress. Family education is an important part in the process of students' growth and success. In the contemporary society, boarding school is ubiquitous, rural boarding school pupils because of a variety of subjective and objective reasons, in time and space contact with their parents reduced, parents also weakened the sense of responsibility for their children's family education. At the same time, under the influence of factors such as cross-generation help education, parents' educational level is not uniform, family education concept is relatively backward and conservative, as well as the traditional upbringing mode, the family education problem of boarding pupils in farming and pastoral areas is becoming more and more obvious. Due to economic difficulties and fewer employment opportunities, many parents have no choice but to return to the countryside for farming and grazing, or choose to go to the city for work and business, and these children can only choose boarding, becoming our common boarding students. Therefore,