第一步也是最重要的准备工作，你得搞清楚对于你自己而言成功是什么，对于成

第一步也是最重要的准备工作，你得搞清楚对于你自己而言成功是什么，对于成功要有自己的主见，这样才不会在追寻成功的道路上受到其他人的影响。例如，你觉得买一辆车就是成功，但别人可能会说车便宜算不上成功，但是你明白买车是为了方便出行，跟价格没什么关系。其次，要制定时间表，让目标具体化，也让自己有紧迫感。善于利用新方法不断尝试，从而找到最适合自己的方法，不要害怕失败，积极从失败中总结经验，直到取得成功 。把无关人员踢出自己的生活就已经成功一大半了。

The first step is also the most important preparation. You have to find out what success is for yourself and have your own opinions on success, so that you won't be influenced by others on the way to success. For example, you think buying a car is success, but others may say that cheap cars are not success, but you understand that buying a car is to facilitate travel and has nothing to do with the price. Secondly, we should make a timetable to make the goals specific and give ourselves a sense of urgency. Be good at using new methods to try constantly, so as to find the most suitable method. Don't be afraid of failure, and actively sum up experience from failure until success. Kicking irrelevant people out of their lives has been more than half of the success.

The first step is the most important preparation. You have to find out what success is for yourself, and have your own opinion on success, so that you won't be influenced by others on the road to success. For example, you think that buying a car is a success, but others may say that it is not a success because it is cheap, but you know that buying a car is for the convenience of travel and has nothing to do with the price. Secondly, we should make a timetable, make our goals concrete and give ourselves a sense of urgency. Be good at making use of new methods and trying constantly, so as to find the method that suits you best. Don't be afraid of failure, and actively sum up experience from failure until you succeed. Kicking irrelevant people out of their own lives has already achieved more than half of the success.