An important person in your life may be stuck, but this does not justify actions that wound your heart and make you feel guilty or inadequate. You have done your best. It is time to forgive yourself for deeds done while acknowledging where your actions may have been truly wrong, without guilt.To fix what is broken, you must learn about the failure and the problem that is to be resolved. Locate and diagnose the issue so you can work on it from there and build a future different from the past.